Soft+Life Secrets for Black Girls

We need to stop calling the bare minimum “a good man.”

A man texting you back isn’t romance.
Planning a date isn’t extraordinary.
Opening a car door isn’t a personality.
Paying for dinner once doesn’t mean you’ve found your husband.

Black women have been conditioned to celebrate crumbs because we’ve been taught to be “independent” and “understanding.”

But baby… I don’t want to be understanding of your inability to show up.

I want effort.
Consistency.
Consideration.
Generosity.
Emotional maturity.
Peace.

I’m not asking for too much.

I’m asking the wrong person for enough.

And there’s a BIG difference. 🖤

You don’t need to struggle to be worthy.

Hey Pretty Brown Girl🤎
Did you know our color is our power 💪🏽

The soft life is about creating space where struggle isn’t the storyline.

Rest is resistance. 💤 Luxury is your birthright.