Baduday Vlog

Finding someone who genuinely cares about you and your well-being is extremely hard to find this day and age.

Time and time again I hear about someone walking away because things became "too hard"

You deserve someone who fights for you when things get difficult, and they aren't gonna be like "you know what? it's over" and throw everything away.

If that person really values you, there's no such thing as you being "too complicated".

There's no such thing as you being "too crazy".

There's no such thing as you being "too much".

The right person will love you unconditionally and they will be willing to make it work, despite what the obstacle is and whatever the problem may be, because losing you is never an option.

No argument is going to push them away far enough, no fight is going to cause them to lose feelings, and no disagreement is going to make them drift away from you.

No matter how bad things get, they would never let it outweigh how much he or she cares about you.

No matter how dysfunctional things become, they would never let it take away the value of your relationship with them.

Take my advice and remember ..... A person who truly values you, would never put themselves in a position to lose you.

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There will come a time when only anger will prevail.
Sometimes, it will even reach a point where both of you want to give up.

No one will understand each other’s side, and no one wants to lower their pride.
It will get to the point where you’ll argue over the smallest things. Until you both get used to it. Like, just a small mistake and the argument starts automatically.

That’s what it feels like in a toxic relationship. That’s one thing in a relationship we can’t escape. Everyone goes through that.
There’s no perfect relationship. Every relationship reaches this point. But this is the thing, when we stay with someone, that’s when we learn more.

Don’t you notice that?
Even though you always fight with your partner, you’re still together? It’s normal, actually, if you think about it. Does breaking up really help? If you meet someone new, won’t you go through the same thing?

Do you get the point? No matter who your partner is, you’ll reach the point where you’re always fighting.

So, the one who gives up is the loser. They think they won’t experience arguments with someone else. So I hope you understand that quitting is not the solution when you don’t understand your partner anymore.

We’re not kids anymore, don’t make breaking up the solution to problems. Remember, no relationship is without fights. So don’t give up

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Read this !!

Kiss on the stomach = I'm ready
Kiss on the Forehead = I hope we're together forever.
Kiss on the Ear = You are my everything

Kiss on the Cheek = We're friends
Kiss on the Hand = I adore you
Kiss on the Neck = We belong together
Kiss on the Shoulder = I want You
Kiss on the Lips = I love You

WHAT SOME GESTURE MEANS..

Holding Hands = We definitely love each other
Holding on tight = I don't want to let go
Looking into each other's Eyes = I just plain love you.

Playing with Hair = Tell me you love me
Arms around the Waist = I love you too much to let go.
Laughing while Kissing = I am completely comfortable with you

ADVICE - Don't ask for a kiss, steal it
If you were thinking about someone while reading this, you're definitely in Love. ❤️🥰

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Cheating is not only having s*x with another person who is not your wife/husband, it also includes:

1. Receiving money from a man without the knowledge of your husband.

2. Giving money to a woman without the knowledge of your wife.

3. Sharing s*x jokes with a person who is not your spouse.

4. Deleting messages which you dont want your spouse to read

5. Answering frequent calls at night from an opposite gender in the presence of your spouse.

6. Avoiding answering a call from someone when your spouse is around or stepping aside to answer that call.

7. Saving contacts of those other persons with different names so that your spouse fails to recognise.

8. Lying about your location to your spouse when you are with that other person or vice versa.

9. Having office husbands and wives.

10. Piling unresolved issues with your spouse is another highest type of cheating which will in turn ruin your body, soul and spirit

No matter how well you treat a man, if you are not the woman he has feelings for, he will never appreciate your efforts.

Nothing is more disheartening for a woman than trying to be the right one for the wrong man.

Stop nurturing dead relationships. Stop forcing connections.

The truth is, when the right man enters your life, communication and attention will come naturally.

You will be valued and respected.

Most men are only loyal to their own feelings.

Find someone who sees your worth from the start and treasures it.

You deserve a love that is genuine, consistent, and true.🌻🖤


Ctto

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You know how much I loved you, right?

You know how many tears I hid, how many nights I hoped you would understand how much indifference hurts?

I asked for so little-to see me, to feel me, to love me the way I loved you. But instead, you made me feel alone even when I was right beside you.

I still love you. But this love no longer holds me back, no longer keeps me trapped in a relationship where only I try to fix things, to understand, to believe.

I won’t ask for your time anymore.
I won’t ask for your attention anymore.
I won’t ask for love anymore.
I won’t ask for honesty anymore.
I won’t ask you to choose me anymore.

I won’t ask for anything anymore.

I let you go, not because I stopped feeling, but because I realized that love shouldn’t hurt this much.

Maybe one day, you’ll understand what you lost.

But until then, I will be far away-in a place where love isn’t begged for, but given freely from the heart.

Ctto


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Listen up, Men!

Women Know Women — That’s Why They Don’t Like Each Other
And That’s Why 95% of Women Prefer Male Bosses. Here’s Why…

I say this all the time and people misinterpret me — but only the sharp men understand this brutal truth:
Women don’t trust women. And women don’t like women.
Not because of hate, but because they know exactly how dark, manipulative, competitive, and emotionally unstable they can be.

You want proof?
Look around your office, your church, your business environment.
Ask any woman — Who do you prefer as a boss, man or woman?
Over 90% will say a man.
Why? Let’s expose the 5 disturbing reasons behind this psychological contradiction:

1. Women Are Naturally Competitive With Each Other
From hair to nails, dresses to status — it’s a never-ending competition.
Put two women in power together and one will instantly try to outshine or undermine the other. Jealousy runs deep.

2. Female Bosses Are Emotionally Erratic
One day she’s nice, the next day she’s breathing fire.
Too many women lead with emotion, not logic.
And other women hate walking on eggshells around unpredictable energy.

3. Female Bosses Can’t Separate Business From Personal
They hold grudges, play office politics, and turn the workspace into a high school drama.
They’ll punish another woman simply because “she rolled her eyes during a meeting.”
It’s not leadership — it’s dictatorship with lipstick.

4. Women Use Power to Dominate Other Women, Not Lead Them
Give a woman unchecked authority and she’ll make life hell for other women beneath her.
That “queen bee” syndrome kicks in fast — and she’ll do everything to crush any other rising female.

5. Women Know How Manipulative Women Can Be
They know about the gossip, the fake compliments, the sabotage, and the backstabbing.
So rather than risk being eaten alive by another woman, they feel safer working under a man.

So what’s the bottom line?

Women don’t want to be led by women.
Because they’ve seen the games. They’ve played them.

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