Benzino Brandy

Wet Wednesday Wisdom 🥳

Guys listen up,

Today i need to remind you that (For the most part) people are not narcissist. 💁‍♂️

▪︎You’re just meeting people who think and behave in a similar fashion as you. 🤷🏿‍♂️

Oh Yes!!
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•It’s Energetic Law‼️

▪︎Without even trying, people encounter and develop roots with people who are similar and complementary to them and their overall energy. 🤷🏿‍♂️

▪︎This is why it is so important to do a Frequent Honest Self Examinations.
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▪︎Examine the games you play in your shadow to get your way. 🙄

●If you pretend to be crazy or slow to avoid accountability...,
You will meet that. .👌🏿

●If you create wild and false narratives about people you don’t like...to punish them,..
You will meet that. .👌🏿

●If you over obsessed about your perspective while lacking empathy for the perspective, experiences, and sensitivities of others...
You will meet that. .👌🏿

●If you weaponized slander and reframed narratives to force people into submitting to your will...
You will meet that. .👌🏿

●If you rely on being co-signed with bad and selfish advice from intellectually dishonest and low character family or peers to operate out of integrity with others,
You will meet that. .👌🏿

●If you use your traumas as an excuse to be mean spirited and unreasonable...,
You will meet that. 👌🏿

●If you are intoxicated with your own victimhood, to the point you can’t fully see the humanity in others..,
You will meet that. .👌🏿

●The more you exercise shadow traits the more your personal community will consist of people who think and behave just like you.

●They will show up in your friendships, relationships, colleagues, and any space you enter, because you match that energy.

●They will possess some or all of your children, and you will be forced to meet yourself through the behaviors and spirit of your offspring.

▪︎If you think a significant percentage of the people in your life or that you encounter are narcissist, the chances are, you are the narcissist that compliments their narcissism. 🤷🏿‍♂️

●Y'all are the same type of person, and spirit is trying to teach you a lesson as it relates to developing your own character. 🙄

●Spirit will literally lock you in a room with a bunch of crazy people to meet yourself, because you’ve backed yourself in a corner with the games you play.

▪︎Trauma bonding with a bunch of losers (online) who are equally as crazy as you about your narcissism horror stories isn’t going to free you from your room of mirrors. 🤨

•Character development is the only way out. 🤷🏿‍♂️

●There is a reason sound, sane , Balance, mature, and healthy people avoid you after you show them a small sample of how you move as a human being. 🤨

This is simply the Bitter Truth..👌🏿

I hope I made myself Clear on this one 😕

🚶🚶🏽‍♀️🚶

●Benzino Brandy 🥃

With The Kiffness – I just got recognised as one of their top fans! 🎉

Saturday Slice Bread 🍞

Interestingly
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▪︎For every type of man there is. . . . . .There is a type of woman that complements him. 😎

And quite naturally they match each other. .👌

This is why I always say there’s no such thing as men not being s**t and the women of that space ain’t s**t too. 💁‍♂️ .No such thing as women not being s**t and the men of that space ain’t s**t too. 😒

●In any given space, the gifts and virtues of the masculine matches the feminine of that space, and so do their wounds. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Men,
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▪︎You are always the type of man that creates the type of women who show up to your field. 🤷🏻‍♂️

Women,
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▪︎You are always the type of woman that creates the type of men that show up to your field. 🤷🏻‍♂️

🚶🏻🚶🏻‍♂️🚶🏻

●Benzino Brandy 🥃

Happy New Month ❤️

Coming from a woman o..

I hope this sends a clear message to all my Ex 😆 🤣 😂

🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♂️

●Benzino Brandy 🍵

Wet Wednesday Wisdom 🙇🏿‍♂️

Guys!

You See ehn...
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▪︎‎Sometimes when a woman rejects you...💁‍♂️, there's this fearr that grips her from her hypergamy nature.🙄
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In most cases
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▪︎‎She goes about thinking what if you hit the jack pot and make lots of m0ney? 🙄

▪︎‎What if you become so popular Or maybe you just blow in a few months or years to come? 🙄

▪︎‎What if you succeed in your dreams Or your potentials start manifesting badly? 🙄
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▪︎‎What if he ends up with a more beautiful girl than she? 🙄
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‎All these bothers them alot. 🙇🏿‍♂️
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You've got (absolutely) no clue about how much they're worr!ed & concerned about these things.🙊
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‎That is because;
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▪︎‎It's in their Hypergamy nature to pick the "Best Choice Ever" out of the men clutching around them. 🤷‍♂️
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●‎They know exactly what they are doing. ‎👌 .And so, to see that you become Great and some big dude after they've rejected you is super painful to them 🙇🏿‍♂️
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‎I mean very pa!nful. 🙇🏿‍♂️
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‎And to avoid that pa!n, 🙄
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‎Many of them wish you fa!l badly 😩 🙊 so they could feel happy and have their ego r0manced. 🤷‍♂️

●‎So they can feel relieved & relaxed and also feel justified that they made the right choices. 🤷‍♂️
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‎I tell you this for free bro;👇
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●‎The Greatest rëvēnge is showing her life became Better after she left or turned you down. ‎💁‍♂️
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Don't stay there begging to prove rrubb!sh. 💁‍♂️
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‎Class dismissed!! 🤝

‎Till I come your way again. ☺️

‎Keep Stalking this Page for more updates 🐼
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🏃🏃‍♀️🏃

●Benzino Brandy 🥃

Saturday Slice Bread 🍞

Listen!!
Let me say this before I forget 😌

My Friend
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You will go to Hell for mistreating people in the name of discernment. 🥺

And . .I’m not talking about an afterlife hell. 💁‍♂️
I’m talking about undesirable circumstances that meet your personal Reality. 😨

So
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●Make sure you Triple check that your discernment is actual discernment and not envy 💁‍♂️, projection, trauma; the desire to mock, cheapen, slander, gossip, or belittle; a defense mechanism to preserve a social hierarchy within a social marketplace that rates you favorably than if the full expression, reality, and presense of your target’s light would overshadow the framework of your self-concept with undeniable embodied Higher Truths that reveals harsh Truths about yourself. 😳

Oh Yes!
▪︎You will go to hell for mistreating people in the name of discernment. 🙊

●Not just mistreating people in their presence, but also mistreating the names of people behind their backs, with dark insinuations, passive aggressive comments, baseless critiques, and reframed exaggerated narratives.

▪︎It will be your employer, colleagues at work, neighbors, peers, etc.

●They will circle around you like a pack of wolves and it will appear as if they are gaining up on you about a thing you did or said. 🥺

▪︎Your romantic prospects, potential clients, leads, promises of employment/income, will ghost you. 😎

▪︎You will be tempted to blame it on racism, sexism, religious hate, collective jealousy, or some other ism.

But really? 🤔

It’s your Heart..‼️

•It’s the Energetics of your own behavior patterns meeting you. .👌😳

▪︎The same psychologically hostile environments you have inflicted on others, will be inflicted on you. 🫵

▪︎You will go to hell for mistreating people in the name of discernment. 🙇🏿‍♂️

●Before words leave your mouth,
▪︎Before you take actions,
▪︎Before you construct narratives,
▪︎Before you whisper in the ears of others, 🤔
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Ask yourself...if you're speaking the Pure Truth Or unconsciously practicing black magic; 🥺
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To Avoid Hell. 👀

😳 🙄 🥺 🤔

🚶🏻‍♂️🚶🏻🚶🏻‍♂️

●Benzino Brandy 🥃

Sexy Tuesday Thoughts 📍

Hey Rasta

I still can't remember If i have said this more than once or twice (before)🤷🏻‍♂️
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But let me repeat myself again,
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How many of you know that the wedding industry is quite Very HUGE. 🙊

Oh Yes!
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Don't get it Twisted because...
You have the:
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•DJ
•MC
•Caterer
•Live Band
•Cake Baker
•Dress Maker
•Event Centre
•Photographer
•Wedding Planner
•Wedding IV and Brochure Printer
Etc

While
The Marriage Industry is very SMALL. 🥺
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You have just;
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•You
And
•Your Spouse

Nothing More Nothing Less 🤷🏻‍♂️

Hmm! Rasta
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I want you to start Investing (your hard earned money) in yourself..👌
Not in strangers that impact your wedding.., but have no impact on your marriage...🤷🏻‍♂️

You See
▪︎When you enter marriage in debt...🙊 .It can lead to the death of that marriage 🙇🏿‍♂️

▪︎I need not say more Than This 🤷🏻‍♂️

But you can Thank me Later if you Resonate with this Thoughtful Message 🪸☘️

🚶🏻🚶🏻‍♂️🚶🏻

●Benzino Brandy 🥃