The Strong

Being Strong 💪 forever is important

It depends on where you are at a particular time.

Lady: A man shouldn't instruct his wife. He should lead and he will follow.

Me: Whether it is to lead or instruct, they are all tied together. You can't lead without instructing, and you can't instruct without leading.

Most times, words trigger humans a lot.

Instruct, for example.
Another one is Submit and Obey.

Whenever these words are used, most women get triggered not because it's bad but because of traumatic experiences associated with the abuse of those words.

A lead instructs and a follower listens, follows, and suggests.

A good leader who submits to God first won't instruct from a place of selfishness or instruct you to disobey God or do something that will hurt you.

Lastly, a good leader will listen to your suggestions and make the final decision for the family.

The problem is that most women pick the wrong leads. If you pick nonsense, you will have to deal with that nonsense.

So, picking wisely should be the focus and not if a man should instruct or not. Whether you like the word or not, it is what must be done.

If you pick right, you won't have any issue following his instructions because you trust Him. We follow Jesus' instruction as the bride because we trust Him.

We all follow instructions every day from different people and things. Our office bosses instruct, and product manuals instruct. We follow because that's the position we are in. I dont know why it becomes so difficult in marriage. I am still looking.

So women should stop picking men they will not like to instruct them or submit to.

It's really that simple.

If you know he is not a good leader why marry him?

If you know you will struggle with submitting why marry him?

If you know you won't obey and follow him why marry him?

You get what you accept.

Cheers.
Profit Eneh

Photo:2023

A couple that can not combine their finance to run the marriage because of a lack of trust or fear that something may go wrong in the future has no reason to get married.

It's funny how people trust their spouse with their life and body but won't trust them with their money.

Financial distrust is the first indicator that your marriage might never last.

Only Strong 💪 people will reach🏃🏃 the Destination despite the challenges on the way. Be strong 💪 and Never Give Up, till you achieve your goal.

Learn from each Day.

Don't let negative things discourage you. Be strong 💪💪.

Problems will never stop you from achieving your goals.

Strong people know how to keep their lives in order.