Sunil Sukhija

Why Do People Pull Away From You?
This balloon just burst — but it wasn't the balloon's fault. It was the fault of the person who filled it with far more air than its capacity.
This is exactly what happens in our relationships too.
We start expecting one person to fulfill our every need — to be our source of happiness, to support us in our sadness, to always agree with us, and to remove all our insecurities. When we put all of this on one person, they start to feel overwhelmed. And one day, they either pull away — or they burst, just like this balloon.
The truth is that every relationship has its own capacity. Your partner can be your best friend — but they can't agree with you every single time. Your family loves you — but they can't fulfill your every emotional need.
When you understand a relationship's capacity and stay within it, that relationship grows strong. But when you expect more than it can hold, it often breaks.
Tonight, send your partner a message — "I know I sometimes expect too much from you, and I'm sorry for that." Then watch what happens. 🙏
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2 Simple Rules for Happiness!
People often ask me — "Sukhija ji, how do you stay so happy?" My answer is simple. I follow just two rules in my life.
The first is the Law of Allowability. Let others do what they want to do. Stop correcting them at every step. Once my children became teenagers, I started treating them as adults — they became my friends.
And you don't interfere with friends. Let them live their way, and I'll live mine. I have almost completely stopped interfering in other people's lives. If someone asks for advice, I give it — but I don't force it.
The second rule — the remote control of my emotions always stays in my own hands. Nobody has the power to press a button and make me angry or sad. My happiness is in my control. So other people's actions and behaviour don't disturb me — because you only get disturbed when you allow it.
When I changed my perception, my behaviour changed, and my responses changed. Follow these two simple rules — stop interfering in others' lives, and keep the remote of your emotions in your own hands — and you can stay genuinely happy too. 🙏
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Why Does Life Keep Testing You?
You've given exams in school — you either passed or failed. But did you know that life is also a teacher, and it keeps giving you exams too?
And until you pass that exam, life keeps giving it to you — again and again and again.
So how does life know that you've cleared the exam? The answer is — through a change in your behaviour in the same situation.
If life put you in a difficult situation twice, and both times you got upset — it means you didn't pass. If you keep asking "Why does this always happen to me? Why do people treat me this way?" — you still haven't passed.
But the moment you ask a different question — "What is this trying to teach me? What message do I need to learn so I can grow?" — that is the change in behaviour.
And I promise you — the moment your behaviour changes, life stops giving you those same lessons. So understand life's lessons, learn from them, and grow. 🙏
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Are Your Own Words Working Against You?
Never speak negatively about yourself — not even as a joke.
I had a friend who worked at a good position in her job. But whenever you spoke to her, she would constantly define herself in a negative way. "You are more knowledgeable than me." "I always struggle with time." "I can never complete my work on time."
She kept saying this — again and again — until it became her identity. And ultimately, she was asked to leave her job. Can you imagine?
You never know when your own words start working against you. This is the Law of Attraction. Whatever you say, the universe keeps replying — "tathastu, tathastu." Your words are its command, just like the genie of Aladdin's lamp.
So never, ever speak negatively about yourself — not even casually, not even to make others feel comfortable.
Keeping your self-esteem high is essential. Because when you respect yourself, the world respects you too. 🙏
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