Lovely Nani

The woman you are today wouldn't date half your exes.

And that's not something to be embarrassed about.

Because growth has a funny way of changing what you find attractive.

Self-respect changes what you’re willing to tolerate.

And healing changes what you mistake for love.

So don't judge yourself for the people you chose when you knew less, accepted less, or loved yourself less.

Be grateful.

Because the fact that some of your exes wouldn't stand a chance with the woman you've become…

means you're no longer the woman who would've settled for them.