Midighe Amos

Permission to share one story here.
When I was a kid, still in my nursery school days, my father will ask me, my son what would you like to be in future, to test the level of my thinking,
I answered and said I will love to be the president, and if possible becomes a king, my father always smiles 😊 and said Amen to your vision, but I want you to understand that a king 👑 does not become a king to beg or depend on the people around you for food, wisdom, security and creativity a king must have those things on his own first before he is honored as a king. If not you will use the power to suppress, oppressed, extort and kill innocent citizens both knowingly and unknowingly just to acquired wealth and power and at that point, justice will never reign in the land. So before you think of power, think of what to offer.
Because what you don't have and you need it can lead you to evil.
In our country today,
We believe in A FREE NATURE OFFERED, we don't reason on how to explore on production, forgetting that the world has evolved to the level of ownership, people owned property and ideas now and they use it to gain power, but we are still in ADAMIC AGE, where we go to the bush hunt and gather just to eat and when it's finished, we go again 😊, possibly enough as the world has evolved, imagine you perpetrated into someone land and property and see how you are going to be enslaved.
Nigeria..... I wish we wake up.

All time you are serious over everything, sometimes you don't even notice when life is just playing with you instead of you to smile 😊 and move on, you are showing over seriousness, uncle, Aunty calm down may God bless you, no be you created yourself, and before you existed, Life already been in existence and people had lived before you and those who take it gently survive it.
I'm not saying you should not be serious in life but try and notice the face of life and the people around you, show value, smile when necessary even though at your hardest time, smile and know that happiness is the thing of the mind and not a gift.
Here are the side effects of over seriousness
1. You killed creativity
2. You get burn out faster
3. You pushed people away
4. You lose perspective
5. You stop learning
6. You missed joy in the process
7. You become brittle and not strong.

Noted: normally if you are over serious, you win at every productive, but lose at being Human.
Always be playful, and flexible.
Happy Sunday to you all.
Still remain your humble brother
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[7/24, 10:47 PM] Emperor 💕: Today's Freedom, Tomorrow's Regret

One of the most disturbing realities of our generation is how conversations about s*x, nudity, and intimacy have become so casual that many people no longer recognize the boundaries that once protected dignity and character.

Many unmarried young people discuss s*xual experiences openly, joke about intimate matters publicly, share revealing images without hesitation, and treat modesty as though it were outdated. What was once considered deeply private has become entertainment, content, or a badge of popularity. The desire for attention, acceptance, and temporary pleasure has caused many to normalize what previous generations handled with greater discretion.

The concern is not merely about changing social norms. It is about consequences.

Many people are making decisions today without considering that every choice has a future attached to it. Temporary excitement often produces permanent scars.

Tomorrow, many will shed tears because:

* Trust was broken by people they thought genuinely loved them.
* Digital footprints can never be completely erased.
* Relationships and marriages may struggle under the weight of past choices.
* Emotional wounds from unhealthy relationships remain long after the relationship ends.
* Some will carry the pain of betrayal, abandonment, or exploitation.
* Others will face unexpected pregnancies, s*xually transmitted infections, or legal and social consequences.
* Many will battle guilt, regret, anxiety, and damaged self-worth after discovering that what looked like freedom was actually a form of bo***ge.

The tragedy is that these losses are often invisible while the choices are being celebrated.

Our culture as being newly adopted in recent years applauds instant gratification but rarely prepares people for delayed consequences. Social media celebrates exposure but does not help repair broken hearts. Friends may cheer reckless decisions today, but they cannot carry the burden of tomorrow's regrets.

True freedom is not the ability to double whatever you feel like doing. True freedom is having the wisdom and self-control to make choices that you will still be proud of years from now.

Young people must understand that preserving your dignity is not weakness. Exercising self-control is not old-fashioned. Choosing purity, wisdom, and healthy boundaries is not a sign of missing out, it is an investment in your future peace, confidence, and relationships.

The tears of tomorrow are often born from the careless decisions of today. But those tears are not inevitable. Every young person has the opportunity today to choose a different path, a path marked by wisdom, self-respect, discipline, and purpose.

"Do not be misled—you cannot mock the justice of God. You will always harvest what you plant."Galatians 6:7 (NLT)

"Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life." Proverbs 4:23 (NLT)

The future is not built in a single day. It is built one decision at a time. Choose today's decisions carefully, because tomorrow will faithfully reveal what was planted today.
[7/24, 10:48 PM] Emperor 💕: You really pointed out a fact
Our culture is dying gradually.
The power of man is diminishing unknowingly and unnoticed.
Also
Because of the privilege and acceptance of modernization which gives women privileges on gender equality.
Now most men, gallant men are turned lazy, just because women are allowed to work, lead in most field of life and some misuse the opportunity, that is why some men prefer a wealthy woman to a virtuous woman and because of that strange practices are introduced into our culture and traditions to favor everyone not minding the future consequences.
REMEDY
* OUR CULTURE AND TRADITIONS SHOULD BE LOOK INTO
* MEN SHOULD KNOW THEIR RIGHT AND RESPONSIBILITIES
* POWER SHOULD NOT BE ABUSED IN THE NAME OF SELFISH INTEREST, that is giving women over power to control, just because she is your relatives, wife or daughter, friend or whatever, just to stay in control

If you can't make it at where you are and the choices couple with your regular actions and plans , rethink, restrategize .
Life is still on a PERPETUAL FLUX
IF you can't make a change, life will continue to change you and swing you like a pendulum Bob.
Embarked on acquiring different skills and experiences, because even a professional course/worker requires a skill and experience to work diligently and effectively

Lord God my father
Please 🙏 let me call you my father and my Maker, for my trust is in you, show me thy way that I may follow righteously till the very end, let your will be done in my life, I want to be your very own and I want you to be my very own to the point that you can tell everyone, every situation, every demon, every life, family challenge and all evil that they should touch me not, for I am your own.
Take charge of my life through out this month even beyond bless and grace me and all that concerns me.
In Jesus name Amen Amen 🙏
If you ready this pray meditate it claims it and it will work for you just as it works for me and don't fail to type Amen 🙏 as comments
Happy New month to you

When you think too much
You understand more things in many dimensions.
When you think too much, you hardly believe nor trust anyone, rather you only listen and then extract points for judgement.
Great thinkers are judges
Great thinkers are hardly be deceive, they can only play along with your lies to get to the root .
Great thinkers don't argue instead they use your statement
Great thinkers looks, observe situations and analyze it, bring out solutions instead of reacting to it emotionally.
Great thinkers has their pattern of life which are different from other people because they see things like a light Ray reflecting and refracting on a mirror or glass, they could stand at one point to see the past and previous situation, the present and the future outcomes because they reason beyond. That's why they smile over everything either good or bad. It's their nature. If you are one be careful wherever you find yourself because you are kept to solve a very critical issues for people and not to manipulate them.

So happy to be at my village 💕 currently enjoying Afang soup .
It makes me think straight and letting me understand that man has to VALUE HIS LITTLE BEGINNINGS.

AND REMEMBER HIS ORIGIN.

It only A man who knows and acknowledge where he or she came out from, Knows where he /she is going to, and definitely identify his destination when he finally gets there.

Because
A VISION MAN IS A MISSION MAN.

whereas

A DESIRE DRIVEN MAN IS A VERY CONFUSED MAN.