Onne cimaa

dhugaa dhukkan'a jireenya summii ta'e kana dubbisi

You have 3 faces. Two are lies. One has never been seen.

You crafted a face for them, and a face for the mirror.
But the third face — the one you hide even from yourself — is the only one that breathes.
SeFear of Being Truly Seen

Guyyaa 41: The Problem of Two Faces

1. The face you show the world is not the truth.
2. The face you stare at when you’re alone is not the truth.
3. Both are lies. You have become a third person — one who is neither.
4. When someone loves only your “one face” without ever seeing the other, you are living in self-hatred.
5. Everything you hate in others is something you hate in yourself, and you’ve been showing it to them through that hidden face.
6. The truth: You never gave anyone a chance to hate you — you never even gave yourself a chance.Fear of Being Truly Seen

Guyyaa 41: The Problem of Two Faces

1. The face you show the world is not the truth.
2. The face you stare at when you’re alone is not the truth.
3. Both are lies. You have become a third person — one who is neither.
4. When someone loves only your “one face” without ever seeing the other, you are living in self-hatred.
5. Everything you hate in others is something you hate in yourself, and you’ve been showing it to them through that hidden face.
6. The truth: You never gave anyone a chance to hate you — you never even gave yourself a chance.
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Wisdom is not only about what you know.

It is also about what you choose not to give your energy to.

Truly wise people understand
that not every situation deserves a reaction,
not every person deserves access to them,
and not every battle is worth fighting.

They know who to ignore.

Because some people only bring drama, negativity, distraction, or chaos into your life.

They know what to overlook.

Because constantly reacting to every mistake, opinion, or insult
only steals peace and emotional energy.

They know where to leave things.

Some conversations, relationships, and situations
are better left behind instead of endlessly revisited.

They know when to move on.

Because holding onto things that no longer serve you can quietly destroy your growth and happiness.

And most importantly, they understand why all of this is necessary.

Because peace, clarity, and emotional maturity
often come from learning what deserves your attention and what does not.

“The art of being wise is knowing who to ignore, what to overlook, where to leave things, when to move on and why it's all necessary.”

A person who wants to control you shows these signs
1.makes you doubt yourself
2.reduces your confidence
3.isolates you from others
4.creates emotional dependency
5.uses silence as punishment
Limits your choices
💬Control is not love.
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☕Friendship
Sometimes…
You don’t need therapy.
You don’t need answers.
Just one honest conversation
with your best friend… ❤️
can heal what the world couldn’t.

He was fired from PayPal.
Rejected from the company he helped build.
Most people would stop there.
But he didn’t.
He rebuilt from zero: 🚀 SpaceX
⚡ Tesla
And everyone who doubted him… had to watch him win.
💡 Lesson:
Sometimes life removes you from where you are…
so it can place you where you’re meant to be.
👉 Now I want your honest answer: If you lost everything today…
what would you rebuild first?
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