The Abundant Soul
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I help clients gain deep self connection & emotional mastery over their fears, behaviours & limiting
There are moments in life when you can't gather enough words to express the emotions you've experienced, and this absolutely was one of them....
A weekend to wrap up one year of mentoring these women...and we gathered in a beautiful location to celebrate together... to be present.
We hiked
We cooked
What I can say is this. That weekend, I spent time with women that held space differently... and I witnessed authentic sisterhood. I saw women lift each other up, hold each other in raw moments, laugh, cry, and share vulnerably without the fear of judgement
We shared our gifts, Oracle readings with (a beautiful guided reading and her personally designed oracle cards that she created and printed for us all, pamper gifts from .bird, a fire cacoa ceremony with .ray and exercise and yoga with .haworth
helped me prepare, and .with.vanessak .diwakar and all helped with food, care and love throughout the weekend
soda captured each of them in images that portrayed their embodiment and wow, they are so beautiful, and there are more to come.
Conversations were deep, and these women bought emotional intelligence and genuine love, and it was noticeable.
We all cried
We all laughed
We helped each other prepare for shoots
We loaned clothes, jewellery, make-up
We all shared
We all received
We all genuinely cared
And we all left feeling different, in a way that words can not explain...my heart burst open this weekend and I KNOW something in me, changed forever.
This weekend was honestly one that I will NEVER EVER forget. It was special and magical
Thank you, ladies. For being you, and for trusting in me.
I am so very proud of EVERYTHING you've achieved (and this also goes to the other women in the group that sadly couldn't make it)
I know you have not only changed your lives but the lives of your families and beyond
Love you all so much
What a blessing this time with you all was
Big love
Clare ❤️
There comes a point in your healing journey where you stop trying to manage other people's perceptions of you.
Before that, you bend.
You over-explain.
You keep the peace.
You say yes when your body is screaming no.
Because somewhere along the way, you learned that being accepted was safer than being authentic.
That's the Identity Gap.
The gap between who you really are and who you've learned you need to be to feel loved, chosen, safe, or enough.
Then something changes.
You stop abandoning yourself to keep everyone else comfortable.
You start saying no without apologising.
You stop chasing validation.
You honour your capacity.
You set boundaries.
You choose yourself.
And suddenly...
The people who benefited from the old version of you might call you selfish.
Difficult.
Cold.
The villain.
But the people who truly see you will call you peaceful.
Grounded.
Authentic.
Free.
Your healing isn't measured by how many people approve of you.
It's measured by how safe you feel being yourself.
The Identity Gap closes the moment you stop performing for acceptance and start living in alignment with who you really are.
🤍 Save this for the day you start questioning whether your boundaries are "too much."
And if you're ready to understand why becoming your authentic self can feel so uncomfortable, join me for my FREE Identity Gap Masterclass on **11 August at 7:00 pm AEDT**.
The link is in my bio.
📸 Jordan
04/08/2026
Do you ever wonder why you can know exactly what to do... and still not do it?
Why you keep buying the course, reading the book, listening to the podcast, writing down the brilliant ideas... but somehow they never quite make it into the world?
Maybe you wake up already feeling behind before your feet even hit the floor.
Maybe you can't remember the last time you truly switched off.
Maybe you're constantly thinking about your business, even when you're with the people you love.
Maybe you've hit the same income ceiling for months... or years... and no matter how much strategy you learn, something keeps pulling you back.
Maybe you keep questioning yourself right before you launch, raise your prices or allow yourself to be fully seen.
What if none of that means you're lazy, inconsistent or lacking discipline?
What if you've simply reached the point where strategy can't take you any further?
Because no strategy can outperform an identity that doesn't yet feel safe receiving the life you're trying to create.
This is exactly what I'll be teaching inside my free masterclass, **The Identity Gap™**.
✨ Tuesday 11 August 2026
✨ 7:00pm AEST (Melbourne & Sydney)
✨ Live on Zoom
If your soul has been craving a different way of building your business... this is your invitation.
Register via the link below. 🤍
The Identity Gap In this POWERFUL free masterclass, we’ll uncover the subconscious patterns, nervous system blocks and identity shifts needed to help you move from force and survival into aligned success, sustainable wealth, self-trust and deeper freedom in business and life.
Eeeep this one slaps doesn't it!!
So welcome to my new feature called "soul slaps" where I'm gonna be dosing up a hellaaa lottaaa honesty in some small bite-sized slaps!!!
Because sometimes "love and light" is not doing you any favours and we need to take a little closer look at what we are blaming instead...
And time...is one thing I constantly hear people saying they don't have....
And this one is bound to hit you a lil....
But can you actually put your ego aside and accept this as truth?
You find time for a hair colour but not for self-development
You find time for a man but not for self-love
You find time to drive to McDonald's but not to cook yourself a healthy meal
You know what, sometimes you have to make yourself the PRIORITY and stop telling yourself you didn't have the time...
There is ALWAYS time....but maybe, if you're honest, there's something more important to you?
Maybe it's something more fun
Maybe it's something that feeds your dopamine
Maybe it's something that distracts you from some hard truths about yourself
Maybe that something is more important than you making YOURSELF the priority????
Did it soul slap? Then good...go look a lil deeper and see what your heart can find when you get radically honest with yourself.
And trust me ...I always ask myself the same question when I start making time, my excuse!!
Get honest if you dare!!
Clare ❤️
21/07/2026
July's feels.....
I'm moving in ways that I never used to... finding big challenges easier and seeing how much extra bandwidth I have
I'm trusting the process when it makes no logical sense, but my heart knows it...and life feels aligned.
Im knowing and believing that even when things appear to be a rejection, they are infact always a redirection
I'm surrendering to the flow of life and where it takes me...
And it feels good.
I'm practising what I teach.
You can learn more with me next month by tapping the link up top. I'm sharing my secrets.
Clare 🥰
If you find yourself thinking:
- What's the point
- I don't have what it takes
- It's so hard
- I don't know enough
- Who am I to help people
Or.....you feel overwhelmed by life and your thoughts are getting loud, this is for you
There is a little breathwork at the end for you but please make sure you are not driving, or in water and grounded on a bed or mat when you listen
Much Love
Clare ❤️
Hello beautiful ones...
I know that sometimes the world can feel heavy but remember that you can IN-SOURCE your power.
For those that need support to help calm your nervous system, centre your soul and bring you back into connection to your heart, I would love to email 2 x short restorative breathwork practices that include meditation and Visualisation, completely free.
With so many distractions, so much noise and information out there, its important to make "peace" a priority.
It is important to take regular "energy audits" to be aware of what is dysregulating the nervous system and how we can IN-SOURCE change.
Everything we experience internally in our "micro" moments, plays out in the macro.
We are always contributing to the frequency of our homes, our families, our children and therefore, our planet. You are an intrinsic and important part of the system and the vibration.
When we deeply understand energy, and the part that we play daily in the balance of the universe, we know that we must take responsibility for our own vibration and access the heart.
Taking moments to self-regulate should be a non-negotiable for us in these times.
Please drop your email below to simply receive.
There are no obligations attached, I simply want to offer support right now, because I can
Much Love
Clare ❤️
28/11/2025
The bad habits and addictions are NEVER the alcohol, bad relationships, food, work, s*x, scrolling, or hustle.
Those are just the symptoms.
The addiction to these habits is the feeling you crave — the emotional hit, your nervous system is missing.
We don’t “miss” the habit.
We miss the HIGH it gives us from the FEELING!
For me, the symptoms were obvious:
• Overworking
• Overcommitting
• Micromanaging my entire life
• Zero spontaneity
• No receiving, no softness
• Living 100% in my masculine
• Punishing my body
• Never letting myself rest
But the FEELING underneath?
CONTROL.
I was addicted to control.
I needed it to feel safe. I secretly loved it
So I created chaos, busyness, struggle…just so I could binge on the feeling of “getting it together” again.
And it almost killed me.
But it also revealed the most powerful truth I’ve ever learned:
Your “bad habits” are not failures.
They’re strategies your shadow created to meet an emotional need.
What I call your Shadow Values —
the secondary gain your brain HAS LEARNED that it benefits from.
And when I learned how to work WITH my shadow instead of against it?
Everything changed.
I stopped every toxic habit INSTANTLY.
Not 62 days.
Not slowly.
But instantly.
Because I wasn’t depriving myself of control — I was FEEDING the same emotional need I had in a healthier way. I had learned to rewire my entire system in MINUTES
My business became easier.
My wealth grew.
My relationships healed.
My body softened.
And I actually felt alive again.
This is why I created The Shadow Advantage —
the method that has helped thousands of people
end destructive habits and install empowering ones FAST.
If you’re ready to stop looping…
if you’re ready to actually change…
if you’re ready to understand what your shadow is really craving —
Comment SHADOW
and I’ll send you everything.
This work saved me in every part of my life
And it will change everything for you too. 🖤
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